Your dad is getting older and lives alone.You worry about him because he hasn't been able to do some of the things he did before. You notice he can't go up and down the stairs as easily so you fear that he may fall and hurt himself. You talk to your mom on the phone and realize she is becoming isolated and withdrawn. Her friends have moved away and she doesn't know anyone in the neighborhood. She's alone and lonely.
What you need to know.As parents grow older, adult children have to address different issues. They may have concerns about the safety or emotional needs of their parents. At the same time, their parents want to maintain their independence. They often say they don't need any help. Making sure you address these concerns while respecting someone's need for independence is important. These are difficult conversations to have.
But there are things you can do. By letting them know there is often an alternative to moving out of their house, you can begin to discuss how an assessment of their situation can identify potential services that promote independence. A good assessment and plan can help to avoid accidents, overcome isolation and reduce the medical and mental risks of being home alone. The assessment usually takes one to two hours and includes questions and observations about medications, nutrition, home safety, social support needs, personal appearance and hygiene, health history, ability to communicate and ability to perform activities of daily living independently. It's not a test and it is conducted by trained professionals who learn as much by observing as they do by asking.
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